Flash Resources
First is the mail lists at FigLeaf Software. These have been so valuable to me over the years - whenever I have trouble, I turn to these first. There are many different topics available and you can search the archives!
http://chattyfig.figleaf.com/apache2-default/
The second is a great blog aggregator with an interesting name where you can sort by product of interest.
http://fullasagoog.com/
The third is Macromedia's News Aggregator
http://weblogs.macromedia.com/mxna/
I'd be missing out if I missed the Adobe side of things...
http://blogs.adobe.com/
Bookmark these sites and view them often to find out the latest news in the Adobesphere.
If you've known about these sites for a while, post a comment and give some feedback - or drop your favorite resource into the comments to share with other group members!